5 SIGNS TO DETECT WHETHER YOU ARE IN AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
1. If you are not happy
Happiness is very major in a relationship. Are you happy generally as having that spouse? Do you feel happy when you are with them any place be it home or other social place.?Can you openly talk about the good things about your relationship infront of people and your spouse? Is it affecting your joy in any way. If you are not happy the reason being the relationship is causing your happiness, this is not a good sign.
2. Are you excessively dependent on the relationship
Being in a relationship means that you are relaxed you don't feel threats in whatever you do. This should be misconstrued that you don't have to be loyal to your partner but if you are not secure and keep on wondering what your partner will do, where they are, what they are doing when you are not with them . If there is no courtesy of willingly letting the other know your whereabouts it should be a wake up call that things are not right.
3. You feel less important than others to them
This is usually displayed when your spouse treats co-workers, friends and even neighbours more important than you. If any of the above comes before your relationship you might be heading in a downhill direction. Your spouse should be no 1 and when doing things your partner is the one you should put first.
4. Do you feel abused in any form
Abuse comes in many forms. It can be emotional or physical, and it is usually hard to detect. You expect your partner to be a shoulder to lean on when things are not going well on other places in your life i.g. at your place of work and your spouse should not make them worse. You should expect the best seed from her or him but if its not the case this is a bad sign. This what should happen to your spouse.
5. Are you below friendship level
There are major areas which should prove this, how is your sexual relationship? Is there great and deeper communication? Are you the only one asking for best moments from a spouse like, is there openes in the relationship, if there is no honesty and you seem like you are almost an acquaintance, things are not well with your relationship.
There is nothing like perfect relationship out there and if you disagree on something that does not mean the relationship is unhealthy. How do you handle disagreement? Communication is the key talk it out but if one spouse is reluctant to sort it out that is where the problem crops in and issues become unsolved.
